When to meet his Parents

I had a twitter debate on when men think it is the right time to introduce their lady to their parents. A lot of you will bring anyone around your folks! Most men contacted me back and said they would introduce their lady to the parents after 3 months. I completely disagree with this. You don’t even know the person you’re dating yet after three months. Today’s relationships are the equivalent of high speed internet, but even that can catch a virus. We rush and rush in a relationship and end up not knowing the person we are in the relationship with. I guess this is why people move in together? FYI moving in with your boyfriend can never replace the foundation you’re suppose to build. That comes with time.

I know you will disagree with me but I’m going to back it up. I don’t believe that you should introduce a woman to your parent unless you feel like you can marry her. First off it is embarrassing to keep bringing women around your family. Playing house doesn’t make her a family asset (please note). Your family doesn’t need to know that you change girlfriends like you change your drawls.  Secondly if you break up with her and your parents loved her it could make you look really bad. This has happen to me where I loved the guys parents just didn’t like his ass anymore. It sucks to be in a situation like that because the parents always try to play match maker. Thirdly if you break up you don’t have to break up with his entire family. Sometime it is okay not to be known until you and you man have learned one another.

Ladies if you have met your man’s parents GREAT, but don’t think it is a guaranteed stamp for the two of you to walking down the aisle. Meeting his parents won’t make or break a decision like that. It will only weigh in lightly if he truly loves you. Moving in with a guy, meeting his parents, and having his baby are things that women put in their minds to make them feel like they’ve gotten one step closer to husband and wife. The only person that controls that is your man. Stop thinking all this stuff will get you a ring because it won’t. Sometimes you got to let the relationship fall into place on it’s own. Stop with all the tactics.