Love at First Lust

Most of you have been mistaken love at first lust with love at first sight. Most of us have fallen victim to it. You let a dude hit it and all of a sudden you’re in love with him. You start doing crazy shit like introducing him to your family too damn early. Then the next thing you know you’ve moved into his place at lighten speed. I know your asking yourself what would make a woman resort to this type of behavior. Well in my opinion loneliness and her urge to settle down with someone.

I have to say that all of the bad relationship that women have been in can result in them making this mistake. The problem with love at first lust is that you haven’t built a foundation for you and your partners’ relationship to fall back on.Everything is so rushed that you begin to plan a life with someone you've never took the time to know. I never understood why people always rush into having a title. A title shouldn’t define your relationship. If you feel like you love your partner then that should be enough. I understand that it is a scary thought to grow old alone but we must let thing happen naturally. Ladies stop confusing multiple orgasms with love at first sight. Take the time to see your man for who he is before letting him get some. In a relationship you should feel like you can talk to him about everything. No topic should make him uncomfortable.

Think about how you got into a relationship to begin with. Did your man ask you to be his girlfriend or did it just become that on it's own? Most relationships start without the phrase "Will you be my girlfriend" ever uttering out of your mans mouth. Today we go off of the connection, although sex should never over power your relationship. Never confuse love at first sight with a man's abilities to satisfy your sexual hunger. It is great that he can make you cum but don't justify it as love when it is clearly lust. This can make or break the way you feel about a person.