Men: Please the Lady

Pleasing a woman can be a very compliance thing for those whom don’t pay attention to her needs physical and mentally. Women aren’t as hard to read as most men think. Most of us tell you what we expect and when we expect. The women who don’t are into playing games. There are three main things that please a woman and they are a man that works, communicates, and loves her unconditionally.


Most men aren’t working right now. Many men will blame it on the recession. The fact of the matter is most of them were not working before the recession hit. I feel like a good man will always find a way to support his family even if that means taking on a gig that he wouldn’t feel comfortable with. A good man would never let his pride or his ego keep him from providing for his family. Too many guys play this “I can’t” card. There isn’t a bigger turn off than a man telling you he can’t do this and he can’t do that. Women want a man that they can depend on when times get rough. Know woman wants to be left helpless in a relationship with her man. If you aren’t ready to be a leader then don’t be in a relationship. If you’re very productive and can see the value of providing for your family then I believe your chances in having a happy relationship with her are stronger.

Communication is so important in a relationship. It could literally make or break it. I feel like couples should be able to share mostly everything with one another. You should not be talking to your home boys about a problem that is occurring with you and your mate. Involving outsiders to what you and your woman have going on at home is not a good idea. You and your woman should have an understanding with one another about resolving certain issues. This shouldn’t even lead to who is right and who is wrong. In a spiritual driven relationship who won an argument is irrelevant. Having an understanding with each other is so much deeper. Strive to always be on the same page. Guessing how your lady feels is a no-no. Always step up to the plate and just ask her!

We all want for somebody to love us back. Sometime it isn’t easy to obtain. It takes a lot of work to find and stay in love. You have to build a very strong foundation that is unbreakable. Your foundation can protect you from the crap that breaks up weaker couples. Your faith in God plays a big part in your life and hers. I feel that faith is the glue that can hold a couple together. The world is going to try to come at you with a lot of negativity but your faith is there to block it. If you haven’t completely let God into your everyday life then you should focus on that before giving a woman you attention.