You made your bed now lay in it and move on!

I'm sick of hearing it. People complaining non-stop over situations they put themselves in. We control what happens in our lives. We need to realize that. I'm sick of the black race always making up fucking excuse for every negative thing that happens to them. If you didn't want him as your children’s father then maybe you should have kept your damn legs close. You don't want to work at a department store then maybe you should have taken school more seriously. The list goes on and on. Life is so short and so many people waste it. I strongly believe that life is what you make it. If you wake up every morning angry then that’s on you. Another person can’t control your emotions… you do! The weak always get trampled over. All the time people spend bitching they could put their energy into make there lives better. Being a bitter bitch that talks shit and doesn't do shit isn't going to help you. I mean look at our black women for real, going to the club for no reason. We rather go pop bottles then get ourselves out of debt. What happened to growing as an individual? This race has been down in the dumps for a long time now. When are we going to make ourselves stronger? Everyone knows that I hate child support, TCA, Day Care Vouchers, Housing Programs, etc. I believe those programs should ONLY be for the elderly and disable. These programs are killing our race. You can say what you want but they are. They are just there to make sure we never apply ourselves and becoming enemies with one another. Of course we fall for it. It is sad. When are you going to wake up and realize that you are apart of our races destruction? We need to ask ourselves everyday “Did I apply myself to the best of my capabilities?” If you didn’t then maybe you should focus on yourself and not negativity. It is so easy to be negative aka a cop out. People are almost scared to focus on themselves because if they try to apply themselves and fail then they won’t have anybody to point the figure at. Stop being scared and change your life.